Even very little children are incredibly intuitive and can pick up on adult stresses and anxieties. So if you’ve been feeling a little unsettled about your imminent return to work your child may gain an awareness that ‘mummy is worried about something’. So in the run-up to the big day it’s important to try and keep a positive mindset to avoid transferring stress onto your child.

Be open with your child about what will be happening soon and the new change to their routine. Little children like the security of routine so it’s important to prepare them by chatting with your child about their new nursery and giving them helpful reference points.

We have a settling policy which, once you sign up, we will share with you. The time spent in nursery is for you to get a proper feel for what a normal day is like, the routines that are followed and the activities that are on offer. You can also take this opportunity to share information about your child with their keyworker; their interests, likes and dislikes, special words, preferred foods, favourite toys, routines they like to follow, etc.

We understand the emotion you may be experiencing as you prepare to leave your little one to return to work. We have lots of experience of looking after children that find the transition difficult, and we know how to approach the challenge of separation anxiety. Try and trust your key worker and remember we are childcare experts!

That could be a dummy, a ‘blankie’ or a favourite cuddly toy. Any familiar reference from home can help assure your child during the early days of settling into nursery.

Saying goodbye at the nursery can be difficult for parents. But it’s really important to handle your departure in the right way – a ‘clean break’ where your child is clear about what is happening is far more preferable to spinning things out and confusing your child. Therefore, we always encourage parents to say goodbye before they leave their child.

It’s natural for your child to shed a tear or two while they find there place within the nursery and create a bond with their keyperson. Or you may find that just when you thought everything was starting to fall into place your child regresses and becomes tearful about drop-off for no apparent reason. But tears are just a normal form of expression for your child and do not necessarily indicate that there’s a problem you need to follow up.

The settling-in period will probably be an incredibly tiring experience for your child. With a new environment to get used to, and lots of new people to get to know, there’s lots for them to take on so try not to pack too many other activities or busy weekends into your schedule for a few weeks.

Once you’ve negotiated those tricky early days it’s still a good idea to keep up your communication with the nursery – this helps you to feel in the loop and aware of any issues or developments relating to your child.